Monday, November 30, 2009

All quiet on the western coast

So all is well with Nomad. And ya... I'm shocked too. There have been moments of amazing, and moments of not. Most of the time I'm happily surprised with him and how he is treating me - like he's in love. And when it's bad, it's usually because I remember what he's done to me before, and get angry at myself for letting him back into my life over and over again. Then, I feel the need to drag him through the mud with me. And I do.

So, when it's good it's good. When it's bad it's the past.

So maybe I should move out of the past... but that's usually when it comes back to bite you...

We're in a little bit of a pickle Dick.

Too Much of a Good Thing?

I love the first few dates when you really like someone. You know you clicked with that person so well and for a brief moment, they shit storm around you seems to settle, and nothing can take the smile off your face. But
I mean how quickly does that go away? How long is it supposed to last? Am I already over it after one week?

...No
totally kidding, but Beard apparently has mad skills at blog finding and discovered my venue for wild and crazy dating stories, and there is a high possibility he's reading this now.. which is why I needed to mess with him a bit! ;)
Three days in a row together and were not sick of each other yet...so, that's a good sign, right? I mean, I think if you are keeping a mental list of all the things you want to do together, the outlook is good! New Years kiss? :)

Monday, November 23, 2009

In One Word: Perfect


Well first date time rolled around once again this weekend. After talking to, Beard, I had a feeling our date would be amazing. We both love art and music, and he didn't waste any time asking me out. Further more, I was impressed with the fact that despite only living in LA for a few months, he had an awesome date planned!

Aside from my being a tad late, everything was great. We walked around the miracle mile art walk for a couple of hours, chatting about everything. Then we went to the Pablove foundation concert which was just a delight. Not only was our first date great, it was our first double date. We met my friend and her boyfriend at the concert. There were cocktails, snuggling, and lots of flirting... i could feel the big smooch coming on soon! We were all starving after the concert and decided to hit up Mels! The night ended with the perfect end to a perfect night.. the perfect smooch! Love it!

Can't wait for date #2 with Beard!

Tuesday, November 17, 2009

Just Say No to Cops


I think I'm just going to say NO the next time a cop wants to take me out. I mean, if the best excuse you can come up with is that you and your friend got into a fight... Good God! That's just pathetic. MOVING ON! New date this week!

Thursday, November 12, 2009

It Was Just... Eh

Well it was once again time for a first date last night. This was another interdude that I had been talking to for a week or so. We'll call him, Legal. After talking to him I still felt unsure if I actually wanted to go out with this guy. But I figured, why not? After an odd conversation that came from nowhere about his likes and dislikes in women and my dealbreakers. He went for the kill and asked me out to drinks.
I only agreed on the 9:30pm meet time because I was able to go into work late the next day. Lord knows that is way past my bedtime under normal circumstances. We met at a quiet, and i mean quiet, bar in West Hollywood. I really have no complaints about the date, there was just no... spark, no chemistry. However he did make a few comments that seemed a little racists toward asians.. it was weird. I cant explain it but it just rubbed me the wrong way. And his hands seemed tiny. Quite dainty in fact. Dainty hands on a man are no good. I have quite small hands but its ok, cause I embrace it, and I'm a woman. Tiny man hands.. not good.
That's all. At least I got his name right. Stay tuned for another first date story over the weekend!